Sometimes when you love someone so much you can see that instead of helping them work through their issues being with you is just creating a bigger strain, you need to take a step back. Its not always easy because you never know how things will end up. The possibility of them never coming back to you is enormous. If you love them though you would give them their space.
Love is a game that we play and the odds are often stacked against us but sometimes we have to take that risk and let go. We like to think that because we offer that shoulder to lean on or that listening ear that we are a great comfort to our loved ones but sometimes we make the burden even heavier.We sometimes place those that we loved smack dab in the middle of their issues and us which often leaves them torn and confused. They may say that we aren't crowding them or making things difficult for them but be realistic, often times we know that it is just because they do not want to hurt our feelings.
I believe if the love that is shared with you and that person is real and is meant to be then he or she will carry that with them and when they are completely healed they will be back. You need to take a step back and allow them to go through their healing process for only then can you be sure if what is there is real. However before you take a step back make sure that he or she knows that you're still there for them if they need you at least for a time, because we all know that some people try to sucker you.
It may be a risk but don't be afraid to let them go for a while for what is meant to be will be.
Love is a game that we play and the odds are often stacked against us but sometimes we have to take that risk and let go. We like to think that because we offer that shoulder to lean on or that listening ear that we are a great comfort to our loved ones but sometimes we make the burden even heavier.We sometimes place those that we loved smack dab in the middle of their issues and us which often leaves them torn and confused. They may say that we aren't crowding them or making things difficult for them but be realistic, often times we know that it is just because they do not want to hurt our feelings.
I believe if the love that is shared with you and that person is real and is meant to be then he or she will carry that with them and when they are completely healed they will be back. You need to take a step back and allow them to go through their healing process for only then can you be sure if what is there is real. However before you take a step back make sure that he or she knows that you're still there for them if they need you at least for a time, because we all know that some people try to sucker you.
It may be a risk but don't be afraid to let them go for a while for what is meant to be will be.
